20+ Divorced People Are Sharing the Moment They Realized Their Ex Didn’t Love Them
Time “Together”
There are some things that a lot of people look forward to throughout the day. The chance to spend a little quality time with the person they love is one of those things.
When this person heard their wife say that she wanted to spend time together when they got home, they seemed to be actually looking forward to a little quiet time together after being out all day. As it turned out, they remembered it as the beginning of the end.
Getting Direct
There are a lot of things that partners might say to each other in the heat of the moment. Some of them can be fixed with open communication and a genuine apology. This isn’t one of those phrases.
Telling your spouse that they’re a “dark cloud over your life” might really be hard to move past. As much as this person loved their wife, they realized that their relationship couldn’t last past this conversation, which came with some hard realizations.
All in the Silence
Sometimes, it isn’t what someone says that denotes such a change or shift in your relationship. Instead, what you don’t say can cause just as much trouble.
For these two, the breaking point came when a question was answered with absolutely nothing. When this person asked their spouse how they felt, they probably expected anything other than just deafening silence. Right then, they knew that it was time to move on.
You’re Kidding, Right?
When it comes to fixing up things around the house, it’s the responsibility of all the adults present, right? So, naturally, you could argue that this could have been a team effort.
Instead, this person was doing their best to fix something on their own, and rather than trying to help, their ex-husband decided to turn it into a weird power play. They describe that this wasn’t the only thing that was leading to them getting divorced but it definitely helped things along.
A lot of people dream of their big day when they tie the knot and all the love that’s supposed to come after. Unfortunately, it doesn’t always work out that you live happily ever after. After getting divorced, these people all shared what showed them that it was time to let things go and start over.